Today all of that changed. Things had been going great here. My youngest and I had finally gotten things working out, she had finally made the decision to call her father and try to set up a time when they would be able to sit down and talk for the first time in over a year, my second oldest child had found out that her jaw surgery just might be completed by Shriner's Hospital within the upcoming year, my oldest had only another semester of school and she would be able to go out into the world as a college graduate and my third oldest was actually thinking about going back to school and I was finally able to actually feel that I could afford dental coverage for my youngest and myself.
Today I found out that the attorney I had used for my divorce did not feel it important to make the X responsible for half of that monthly charge! Now there is a long list of things that attorney did not feel was too important when it came to this divorce and I have dealt with things as they needed to be dealt with and have not fought the Judge or my attorney on any of these things but this is kind of the last straw for me. The attorney and the Judge did not feel that it was important that the X pay child support although the kids didn't live with him and hardly ever saw him. The attorney and the Judge did not feel that the 100 miles a day I drove to get the kids to the school closest to their dad was important~even when gas hit $4.50 a gallon. The attorney and the judge felt that it was okay to keep me part of the business that the X has been running into ruin. Although he was ordered to sell the business he was not given a time frame to sell it in and I am still part of it. And yes, it has ruined what little credit worthiness I had left.
I never fought any of this but now I think I'm fed up! I think it is time to fight back and get completely finished with this entire divorce thing so that I can move on with my life.
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